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Common questions
THE PROCESS
Will the mediator take sides?
No. The mediator is independent, impartial and neutral; their role is to support both of you equally in the discussions you will have in mediation.
Is it confidential?
Yes. What is discussed in mediation is confidential and cannot be used in court, except for financial information disclosed openly and in rare cases where there is a risk of harm.
Are agreements legally binding?
Not on their own. Your proposals are set out in a Memorandum of Understanding, which a solicitor can then turn into a legally binding agreement or court order.
Do I give up my right to go to court?
No. Mediation is voluntary and you can stop at any time. If you can’t reach agreement, court remains open to you.
COSTS
What about costs?
A MIAM is £150 fixed. Joint sessions and preparing documents are charged at £220 per person per hour. Full details are on the Fees page.
How are costs split between us?
Each of you is invoiced separately. Costs are usually shared equally, but you can agree a different split if that suits you both.
LEGAL
Do I still need a solicitor?
You don’t have to, but independent legal advice alongside mediation is recommended, particularly before finalising financial arrangements.
CHILDREN
Can children be involved?
Where it’s appropriate and both parents agree, a specially trained mediator can meet children so their views can be heard.
PLANNING AHEAD
Can mediation help before we separate?
Yes. Mediation can help couples agree pre-nuptial, post-nuptial or cohabitation arrangements calmly and in advance.
Have another question?
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